Parent Information Night

for Incoming Cheney Middle School 6th graders

Where: Snowdon Elementary

When: April 26th from 5:30-6:30pm

Who:  For 5th Grade Cougars transitioning

to Cheney Middle School Hawks!

 

• Meet CMS’ Principal, Assistant Principals & Counselors!
• Get answers to your questions!
• Find out what you need to know before your child starts middle school!

          Hope to see you there!

 

Are you in need of a Thanksgiving meal? We have a limited number of turkey dinners available. If your family needs assistance this year for Thanksgiving, please reach out to me either by phone 559-4303 or email at [email protected] to be put on the list. We do have limited availability so we cannot guarantee help but we sure will do our best to accommodate. 

Dear Snowdon Families,

During the next couple of weeks, Snowdon students will be participating in lessons and activities that help educate them about bullying prevention. Here are some helpful tips when talking with your children about bullying. 

Communication is Essential to Preventing Bullying

In order to know what’s going on with your children, you need to ask. Talk to your children regularly about school so they can understand what bullying is and how your child should respond if they are being bullied or if they know someone else who is.

A good way to begin is by asking the right questions. Rather than asking, “How was your day?” which usually leads to: “good” or “ok,” consider asking questions that encourage a longer conversation. Some examples include:

• What did you do during recess today? Who did you play with?
• What was the best thing that happened today?
• Does anyone in your class seem to be having a hard time?

 

Knowing the right time and place to talk is also important. For young children, after school snack or dinner time offers a chance for meaningful communication and gives children an opportunity to share while they are also focused on eating.

As they get older, car rides offer a great opportunity for talking with your child.

 

What to Do If Your Child Thinks They’re Being Bullied

If your child discloses that they think they are being bullied, make sure they understand that it is NOT their fault. Reassure them that they did the right thing by telling you. Do make sure to talk to your child about the difference between a conflict and bullying. Conflict is a disagreement that happens when people want different things. If what your child starts to explain is sounding more like bullying, below are the questions needing to be asked:

• Has this student been doing this to you over and over again, more than once? 
• Is this one-sided? How did you respond? 
• Is it unfair and on purpose? 
• Did they stop when you asked them to stop or did it continue? 

Once you understand the facts, it is important to communicate with your child’s school. As the school tells your child, if the incident is not reported we cannot help set up plans, monitor the situation, or help. Sometimes, children witness bullying and want to do something about it, but they’re not sure what to do. In our bully prevention lesson, we call this action empowering the bystander. It is important to recognize that how children respond may vary depending on the particular situation, how well they know the people involved, and whether they are older or younger, etc. 

Did you know?

 “When children intervene in a bullying situation, it can have a powerful effect. Research shows that when peers intervene in a bullying situation, the bullying stops nearly 60% of the time.”

 

Empowering the Bystander

• Use their assertive communication skills. If they feel safe, children can say something like, “Hey, that’s not cool! Why are you doing that?” If children are friends with the instigator, they can talk to them later and ask why they were doing that. Saying something like, “Did you know that you were being hurtful?” can help break the cycle of bullying.
• Walk away from the incident and encourage others who are watching to walk away. If there is no audience for the bullying, the incident is likely to stop. Students can tell others who are watching to stop and encourage everyone to walk away. If they feel safe, children can help the target themselves get away.
• Have empathy and show empathy. The impact of bullying won’t last as long if the target feels they have support from their peers. Encourage your child to talk to the target of bullying and let them know it wasn’t their fault. Being present and supportive can make a big difference.
• Get help from a trusted adult. If children don’t know what to do, they should talk to a trusted adult. Make sure your child knows they can talk to you about anything, and encourage them to tell a teacher or counselor if they see anything that makes them uncomfortable.

Our first priority at Snowdon is to create, ensure, and sustain a safe and positive learning environment. Please partner with us to support your children.

If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to call or email me. 

The 2022-23 school year is going to be great!

We have loved seeing everyone's faces at school this first few days.

 

If you have any questions about school supplies, school readiness, transportation assistance

or anything else that pertains to your child's schooling, please don't hesitate to reach out.

 

I've been visiting the classrooms and introducing myself so the kids know

there is another adult in the building who is there to help them.